ADAM - QUESTIONABLE DECISIONS?

Angel, if you feel strongly enough, you should write the letter to Adam. I wish I had the gumption to do so.

canear wrote:

Angel, if you feel strongly enough, you should write the letter to Adam. I wish I had the gumption to do so.

Canear I really really want to but I am scared. I don't want to offend him and because I suck at writing I probably would :( I wish someone could help me write it.

Shannon

AngelWings wrote:

canear wrote:

Angel, if you feel strongly enough, you should write the letter to Adam. I wish I had the gumption to do so.

Canear I really really want to but I am scared. I don't want to offend him and because I suck at writing I probably would :( I wish someone could help me write it.

Shannon

Shannon, if you want to write something and send it to me, I would gladly proofread it for you.

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Well Adam has made the tabloids overseas. Apparently he was the winner of BB over there ..... and he's going on television next week to perhaps talk about their meeting.

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The Big Brother guy now works for the tabs. He's also going on TV on Monday ( or a magazine?) to talk about his experience. Doubt Adam cares. He probably will never see the man again.

Guess we'll see what becomes of it all but hopefully Adam is more discerning about who he spends time with in the future.

The pitfalls of celebrity. What can you do? When/if one hooks up with a stranger one just never knows what one will face afterward. Obviously if true and this guy is a kiss and tell than he is the one who will look like the creep - not Adam. Adam is a 28 year old single man who is free to be with any other single adult so how would that reflect badly on him? I'm just not going to worry about this other than the fact that Adam might feel hurt. Otherwise it is none of my business.

What can you do? You can not hook up with strangers. It is and can be dangerous. I've said it before, he is not a club boy in LA any more. He has more to loose now. Picking up strangers might not bother some and it might be the norm in the world of rock n roll, but it concerns me and I don't care for Adam to be a tabloid darling for his sexual conquests. It would make him look cheap.

Maybe he likes the thrill of the unknown conquest, but many celebrities belong to private clubs or use escorts who are discreet. That might be an option for him rather than take the chance of being on the front page of the Enquirer.

He does have to be careful. Celebrities are targets for all kinds of things, and he needs to protect his public image. My wish would be that he enter into a loving, stable relationship, but until that happens, he needs to be really discreet and cautious.

He is a grown man whose personal life is something fans are never going to have any say over. He is going to do what he wants to do. We can only hope he stays safe and healthy. Maybe he will learn from this past experience or maybe he won't care. Maybe it never even happened

No the fans will never have any say and we'll know about what possibly happened after the guy is on television next week. That said, I will always worry if he does participate in this type of behaviour especially after just seeing on the local news about a girl having met a guy at a restaurant, going back to his hotel room with him and ending up in the hospital having been stabbed several times. It's a scary world out there. You have to look after you and going to hotel rooms with strangers, no matter how enticing they might be can be hazardous to your well being.

I would never in a million years go back to a hotel or apartment or get in a car with a stranger. It's so very dangerous! Yet so many do this....

I'll never understand those that do and that's why I do worry so about Adam if he is doing this. Even if someone knows, he is alone with this person and it only takes a moment for something to happen .......

I don't even know what he is supposed to have done, so maybe he didn't do it. Adam is a very intelligent man. He knows the dangers.

Maybe not, but he also is very sexual and has been on the road. He might not always think with his brain ........

Most men don't usually think with their brain

Firecracker wrote:

Most men don't usually think with their brain

And some just can't keep their zippers up.................

Hopefully we will find out that it was nothing. The guy will talk about how great Adam is and that he is a gentleman and they had a lovely time TALKING.

I still don't think it is a good idea for Adam to go anywhere alone with a stranger. When it is only the two of them that person can say that anything happened, it would just be Adam's word against his and he doesn't need that sort of publicity.

I know this is something he probably did a lot in the past but he was just a guy then, no one was going to try to sell a story about him.

Hi Jaycee!

From your keyboard to God's ears on that first paragraph of your post!

Okay, I saw a gif of today's kiss so I went to watch the start of the video. Honestly, it's getting to be overkill. It's beyond ridiculous and OTT. What the heck is so hot about it? I almost laughed at it, I really did. He must be getting bored with the show (it's like the 100th one?) so he's starting to do all this extra OTT and raunchy stuff. Why can't he just perform a new song instead?

I think the AMA's hurt big time. It must not matter to Adam, because his concerts are getting known for his sexual antics. If that doesn't matter to him, then that's fine. He is who he is and I still love him. It will hurt or at least limit his career for the mainstream.........that's just how I feel. I just hate that his voice isn't enough for his concerts. I do have to remember his stage background and it's starting to be in his concerts. He's comfortable with his concerts and his performance, that's who he is and I hope he's not performing just because he thinks that is what the fans want of him. He carries with him the baggage from the AMA's, being gay and also being on American Idol. Believe it or not there are some radio stations and some in the music industry that will not support an Idol performer, there are exceptions however.

You know it is getting bad when Sky is crying.....

Adam - clean-up your act!

Firecracker wrote:

You know it is getting bad when Sky is crying.....

Adam - clean-up your act!

I hope is not to late, I will hate for him to be considered just as a cabaret performer.

Firecracker wrote:

You know it is getting bad when Sky is crying.....

Adam - clean-up your act!

We don't have just a frown smiley, do we? These are just my thoughts, that I think he's turning this into a Cabaret show like he did before, but on a much grander scale! His antics really don't bother me, but to an outsider it might. I can't share some of his concert performances with my grandsons....... and god forbid, hubby is not a fan anyway.........

I kinda think of this one as frowning

I'm with you on this one. What he does doesn't bother me - but it could hurt is career so in that regard I wish he made different choices.

Sky wrote:

I think the AMA's hurt big time. It must not matter to Adam, because his concerts are getting known for his sexual antics. If that doesn't matter to him, then that's fine. He is who he is and I still love him. It will hurt or at least limit his career for the mainstream.........that's just how I feel. I just hate that his voice isn't enough for his concerts. I do have to remember his stage background and it's starting to be in his concerts. He's comfortable with his concerts and his performance, that's who he is and I hope he's not performing just because he thinks that is what the fans want of him. He carries with him the baggage from the AMA's, being gay and also being on American Idol. Believe it or not there are some radio stations and some in the music industry that will not support an Idol performer, there are exceptions however.

Sky it is the truth there are many radio stations that will not play music that it from an idol except if you are Kelly or Carrie.

I am saddened by what Adam is doing. He has soooooooooooooooooooooo much talent and that voice is killer but he is going over the top sexual during his shows and doing that more than just using his God given talent and singing. I think he will be around for a long time but he is going to have loads of problems in the US cause he won't reign the sexual streak in. Nobody says he has to totally stop doing it but he doesn't have to be so over the top about it either. Sometimes it honestly feels he is throwing it into the faces that did cry foul with the AMA's. I think he is still ticked about the fallout and this is his way of saying how he feels without saying it in words.

Shannon